Answer :
Denote the given surface by the vector-valued function,
[tex]\vec s(r,\theta)=\langle 5r\cos\theta,4r\sin\theta,r\rangle[/tex]
Then the normal vector to this plane is
[tex]\vec n=\dfrac{\mathrm d\vec s}{\mathrm dr}\times\dfrac{\mathrm d\vec s}{\mathrm d\theta}=\langle-4r\cos\theta,-5r\sin\theta,20r\rangle[/tex]
When [tex]r=2[/tex] and [tex]\theta=\frac\pi4[/tex], the normal vector is
[tex]\vec n=\left\langle-\dfrac8{\sqrt2},-\dfrac{10}{\sqrt2},40\right\rangle[/tex]
and so the equation of the tangent plane is
[tex]\vec n\cdot\langle x-5\sqrt2,y-4\sqrt2,z-2\rangle=0[/tex]
[tex]\implies-\dfrac8{\sqrt2}(x-5\sqrt2)-\dfrac{10}{\sqrt2}(y-4\sqrt2)+40(z-2)=0[/tex]
[tex]\implies\boxed{4x+5y-20\sqrt2\,z=0}[/tex]
Judging by the "note", you need to write the equation as [tex]z(x,y)[/tex], which is trivial:
[tex]\boxed{z=\frac{4x+5y}{20\sqrt2}=\frac x{5\sqrt2}+\frac y{4\sqrt2}}[/tex]